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Getting the help you need - or taking the first step. And more tales from you guys.
20 April 2017

Part Two - Gaslighting , No Contact and Moving on from an Abusive Relationship 

I'm pleased to report that the feedback I've had since last week has been outstanding - and so many people messaged me to thank me for highlighting this important silent menace in our lives - those who bully us in private and seem sweetness and light in public. Some horrendous stories of abuse came through which were painful to read, let alone to have gone through. And more on the topic of this thing called a 'narcissistic psychopath' , read last week's blog called Narcissist here if you haven't done so yet.

I also had yet more examples of people who never realised how it related to them till they read about other people's stories and saw they were indeed living with one. A good test is this one - 

click here to take the test to hear some of the things narcissists say - recognise any? ESPECIALLY number 4, and 6. and 8...

There are going to be more anecdotes below - TO COME. if it helps you to read others' stories, in this part two blog I'm writing.

But more importantly, some extra help links you can go watch or read, to enable you to maybe see how to deal with your situation - or more importantly - pass it on to someone else you know.

Please note that it is particularly important to remember when dealing with narcissists that they will convincingly tell a different tale when confronted. They will also often assume everything is personal to them, even if it's clearly not when someone else reads it. In fact, I had two people claiming my blog was 'all about them' and 'everything in it' was personal - sad to say they were wrong, and I put them straight in no uncertain terms. Very important to note that a public apology is not going to be necessary if they don't kick off in the first place. So think on that if you read certain things - often they are not to be believed.

Help links

 to come - here are a few useful links -

9 signs of a secret narcissist - funny and spot on

- are narcissists born or made

- why narcissists need so badly to look good in the eyes of others


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